Safety & Scams
Money in International Relationships: When Helping Is Love, and When It’s a Red Flag
Helping a partner with less money can be love. Here’s how to tell healthy help from a red-flag pattern, with kind scripts for saying no.
Romance Scams in 2026: How They Really Work Now (and How to Protect Yourself)
Scam teams, AI video calls, and fake trading apps: here is how romance scams really work in 2026, and how to check calmly without fear.
Everyone Says He’s a Scammer, But I Love Him
Your family is certain. Your friends have stopped asking. Here’s how to stop defending him and start finding out, using evidence instead of everyone’s opinion.
He Won’t Video Call. What Does That Actually Mean?
Refusing video is one of the strongest warning signs there is. But there are a few real reasons it happens, and here’s how to tell which one you’re dealing with.
Does He Love Me or Does He Want a Visa? How to Tell the Difference
Wanting a better life and loving you are not opposites. Here’s how to work out whether you’re the person he loves or the paperwork he needs.
Keep Your Money & Assets Safe When Buying Property in Morocco
So you've fallen for a Moroccan man and you're imagining it: a gorgeous riad in Marrakech, a villa in a quiet village, an apartment with an ocean view. The dream feels close enough to touch now, especially when you visit and walk through these spaces with him. It's...
What to Do if You’ve Been the Victim of a Romance Scam?
If you’ve been scammed, this isn’t just about money. It’s about trust. Here are the calm, practical steps to take next, and how to start healing without blaming yourself.
Where to Report a Romance Scammer: A Country by Country Guide
If you've read anything else on this site, you already know most long-distance relationships are real. This article isn't about being suspicious of every man who lives somewhere else. It's here for the moment you already know something is wrong, and you need to know...
Love, Lust, or Bust? 3 Most Common Romance Scams
As a traveler, you are often viewed through a lens of "abundance." Scammers aren't looking for love; they are looking for a payday. Of course, not all men are scammers, whether they are Nigerian, Moroccan, Ghanaian, or from any country. You can meet a man in NYC or...
How to Spot a Romance Scammer Before You Lose Your Heart or Your Money
Not every man online is who he says he is. And not every love story is real. Some women come to me glowing, excited, and convinced they have met someone special. Others come confused, noticing small inconsistencies they cannot quite explain. And some arrive...
