Sex & Safety
Why You Should Not Give Your Foreign Lover Money & Gifts
Lately, I have been hearing more and more about women getting hurt after giving foreign boyfriends money and gifts, only to find out later that the man they believed was truly in love with them simply used them. I have heard these stories from women in Facebook...
100 Ways Women Can Avoid Perpetuating Female Sex and Romance Tourism and Instead, Date Ethically
Here are 100 ways women can avoid perpetuating female sex and romance tourism and instead, date ethically: Communicate openly and honestly with potential partners Be clear about your intentions and expectations from the beginning of the relationship Listen to the...
The Best Apps to Help Solo Travelers Stay Safer
While solo travel for women may never feel 100% safe, there are some things you can do to feel safer and to make yourself less vulnerable to criminals looking for an easy target. One of the ways to do that is by taking advantage of some of the safety apps and...
How to Vet/Background Check Your Online Lover Before You Meet
Before you think I'm trying to convince you to become a stalker, let me say this; "Catfish". If you've ever seen the show, you already know that there are hundreds (thousands) of stories where people thought they had met their soul mates online, only to find out later...
How to Get Flewed Out As Safely As Possible When a Man Arranges Your Trip
Online dating sites and apps have been around for a while but recently, (mostly due to the pandemic) the number of members on these sites has risen exponentially. No longer can we simply going to a bar or party and meet people the way we used to. In some ways, singles...
Arabic Phrases to Help Solo Female Travelers When Being Harassed by Muslim Men
You guys know I love my Muslim brothers, and most of the time, I have felt quite safe when I have visited, or lived in Muslim countries like Egypt, Nigeria, Morocco, and other places. However, I must admit, there are times I have felt harassed and just wanted to slap...
How Solo Female Travelers Can Avoid Romance Scams
by Linda Benz Getting to know new people while travelling is a wonderful thing. You might even fall in love. Unfortunately, in some countries there is a scam by which locals try to get money or visas (called a "green card" in The U.S.). The Romance Scam The Romance...
Why Wearing a Mask is Sexy
There have been tons of articles written on why you should wear a mask to help prevent the spread of Corona/ Covid 19. But do you know that wearing a mask is sexy? It's true. I love writing about scandalous topics. Dating, romance, sex, and especially love are things...
Are You Being Used for a Green Card?
Many travelers find their soulmates and fall madly in love while traveling. But how can you tell if they really do love you back? How do you know if your partner is honest about their feelings, or hiding behind a mask with ulterior motives? It can be difficult to know...
Are You a S*x & Love Addict?
What's the difference between liking a man you're hooking up with a lot, and being codependent on the c*ck? How do you know if you're a sex addict? Everybody loves sex, right? Well, yes. But there is a difference. According to The National Council on Sexual Addiction...
10 Tips for the Good Girl Who’s Sometimes Bad
Are you a good girl who sometimes wants to be just a little bad? Being bad can be fun, especially when your definition of fun includes a hottie you just met while on vacation. (If you're looking for the most beautiful, sexiest men in the world, click here!) But far...
Foreign Flings; Staying Safe While Hooking Up
Virtually every online travel site, magazine, and guidebook offers tips on travel safety for solo female travelers. Wear a wedding ring. Carry a picture of your "husband". Wear a hijab to cover your head in Muslim countries and don't look Arab men in the eyes. Don't...