Love Lust or Bust

A guide to romance & travel…with a bit of scandal!

Who Am I?

Hi! My name is April. I love romance and I love to travel!

Over the past 30 years, I’ve had the opportunity to visit and live all over the world.

During my travels, I met hundreds of couples who fell in love and were exploring the planet together. I, too, have dated (and for several years, was married to) a man I met abroad.

Today, with the huge explosion of online dating sites you no longer have to hope that you might meet someone at your local coffee shop; your soulmate can be anywhere in the world!

But this site isn’t only about my journey to find love; it’s a place where singles and people in relationships can share their stories about romance and travel, long-distance love, solo traveler safety tips, travel hacking, budget tips and tricks, and “catfish” confessions where people share their embarrassing yet often hilarious experiences with online dating disasters.

Travel Tips

Dating Tips


Planning for a trip can be incredibly overwhelming. When I began my journey to explore over 100 countries, there was no Google or travel blogs, so I made many mistakes and planning was time-consuming.

I hope this list of some of my favorite websites, companies, and resources I have used to help me plan my trips will help you save a lot of time and money, and help you to have an amazing trip!


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Whether you’re planning your first solo adventure abroad, meeting an online lover, looking for advice on romance scams, or going on a sexy weekend getaway and looking for a romantic destination, we can help you!

How Can We Help?

Whether you’re looking to hang out, have fun, hook up or fall in love, we’ve got you.

Planning a Trip

Staying Safe While Hooking Up

Avoiding Romance Scams

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