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90 Day Fiance…In Real Life!

90 Day Fiance…In Real Life!

By Melosa We all know and love the series 90-Day Fiancé, perhaps sometimes we even romanticize the experience, dreaming of what it would be like to take this chance in real life. Love abroad, just like at home can truly be a hit… or as my story will show below, a...

How Solo Female Travelers Can Avoid Romance Scams

How Solo Female Travelers Can Avoid Romance Scams

by Linda Benz Getting to know new people while travelling is a wonderful thing. You might even fall in love. Unfortunately, in some countries there is a scam by which locals try to get money or visas (called a "green card" in The U.S.). The Romance Scam The Romance...

Dear Diary; April Hope’s Journey of Love, Lust or Bust

Dear Diary; April Hope’s Journey of Love, Lust or Bust

Dear Diary Entry 1 November 30, 2020 I have rarely written on this website about my experiences with dating, love, sex or any stories about men I have had intimate relationships with. But over and over, people seem to be curious about my dating life. For years, I have...

How Smart Women Get Scammed by Sex Tourism Gigolos

How Smart Women Get Scammed by Sex Tourism Gigolos

"She's so stupid". "How does she not know he's just using her?" "Omg, he took all her money and left her, how could she have been so naive?" Many of us have watched reality shows like "90 Day Fiance" and spinoffs, or have heard about or have met women who have been...

Are You Being Used for a Green Card?

Are You Being Used for a Green Card?

Many travelers find their soulmates while abroad and fall madly in love. But how can you tell if they really do love you back? How do you know if your partner is honest about their feelings, or hiding behind a mask with ulterior motives? Are you being used for a green...

Why Men Treat You Like Shit

Why Men Treat You Like Shit

By Anonymous Do you often ask yourself why men treat you like shit? I get it. I've been there. For years, I dated men who lied, cheated, and tried to use me for sex, money, or green cards. I dated the worst men. I am also a survivor of domestic abuse. So yes, I have...

Go Down Swinging

Go Down Swinging

I have never liked the term, "Cougar". Women are already constantly referred to as animals by men all the time, from "foxes" to "chicks" to "bitches", so we do not need to be called animals because we choose to date a younger man. After all, men do it all the time,...

Am I a Victim of Gaslighting?

Am I a Victim of Gaslighting?

LoveLustorBust contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links, I will earn a commission at no extra cost to you. By Anonymous I have heard a few of you mention the term "gaslighting": a few times, and I thought I knew what it meant; someone lying...

Featured Blogger Adrien Behn on Solo Female Travel

Featured Blogger Adrien Behn on Solo Female Travel

Adrien Behn is the creator of the popular podcast Strangers Abroad, a series of conversations had with strangers she met while backpacking throughout Latin America for 5 months, overlapped with her personal stories about being a woman who travels alone. The...

Don’t Rock the Boat!

Don’t Rock the Boat!

By Ursula Isn't it a weird thing, a relationship? When you are single, you are looking for someone to be with. When you are in a relationship, you think you were better off alone. But when you do finally fall in love; don't rock the boat!     It is one thing...

Online Dating Safety Tips

Online Dating Safety Tips

The news about the murder of Samantha Stewart, and the sexual assault (a term I despise when we should be calling it rape) and violent attacks on several other women by accused killer Danueal Drayton has me more than a bit freaked out. The suspect confessed to police...

Why Women Should Plan the Second Date

Why Women Should Plan the Second Date

Why Women Should Plan the Second Date Women should plan the second date, (especially when meeting a man from online) before you even meet. I never used to feel that way. I'm old fashioned, old school. I like when a man opens the car door,...

Are You a S*x & Love Addict?

Are You a S*x & Love Addict?

What's the difference between liking a man you're hooking up with a lot, and being codependent on the c*ck? How do you know if you're a sex addict? Everybody loves sex, right? Well, yes. But there is a difference. According to The National Council on Sexual Addiction...

Conceal or Reveal; When is Lying on Your Dating Profile Okay?

Conceal or Reveal; When is Lying on Your Dating Profile Okay?

  According to this article in The NY Times, about 81% of people lie in dating profiles. And although mostly they're "little lies" (women by fudging on about 8.2 lbs (men fibbed on average by about 2 lbs) and men exaggerating their height, marital status, and...

11 Ways to Avoid Online Dating Disasters

11 Ways to Avoid Online Dating Disasters

by Jasmaine Payne Ah, the joys of online dating! Unashamed, I admit that I have subscribed to this alternative means of meeting prospective matches for quite some time now. Until now, online dating has blessed me with meeting interesting and refreshingly intelligent...

How Couples Can Keep From Killing Each Other While Traveling

How Couples Can Keep From Killing Each Other While Traveling

You love to travel, your partner loves is just as adventurous, so planning a trip together should add even more romance to your relationship, right? Imagine staying at a beach resort, watching the sunset as you sip cocktails with fancy umbrellas. Couples who travel...

Green Pants, Yellow Shoes and Red Roses; A Modern Day Fairytale

Green Pants, Yellow Shoes and Red Roses; A Modern Day Fairytale

This is a story about a gutsy girl who was fearless and assertive and courageous in her search for love. Her missed connection post on Craigslist about a man on the subway wearing yellow shoes created a media frenzy. But there's more to this story that turned out to...

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