The Lust Blog
Travel to Rekindle Desire
Travel to Rekindle Desire By Ella Ella, Content Manager for trekbible, is a writer and content specialist with a predilection for learning and exploring new places and cultures around the world. With family scattered throughout the U.S. and South Korea, she loves to...
Why Women Should Plan the Second Date
Why Women Should Plan the Second Date Women should plan the second date, (especially when meeting a man from online) before you even meet. I never used to feel that way. I'm old fashioned, old school. I like when a man opens the car door,...
Plenty of (Cat)Fish, Tinder Terrorists, and OK Crazies- A New Podcast Series from Travelistas Who Have Survived Online Dating Disasters
Plenty of (Cat)fish, Tinder Terrorists, and OK Crazies- A New Podcast Series from Travelistas who Have Survived Online Dating Disasters I'm so excited about the new podcast series! The podcasts will include interviews with fearless solo travelers who are exploring the...
Are You a S*x & Love Addict?
What's the difference between liking a man you're hooking up with a lot, and being codependent on the c*ck? How do you know if you're a sex addict? Everybody loves sex, right? Well, yes. But there is a difference. According to The National Council on Sexual Addiction...
Unsolicited Dick Pics; Why I Hate Them Even Though I Write About Sex
Recently I posted online about receiving unsolicited dick pics and pornographic pictures and videos from men online I'd never met. I posted immediately after receiving the 10th unsolicited dick pic in a week without stopping to reflect on why I was pissed off. A part...
Your New F*cket List; 12 Sexy Things You Must Do Before You Die
Many of us have bucket lists; things we want to do or places we want to visit before we die. But have you created your "F*cket" list of sexy things to do before you die? Even if you keep it secretly tucked away and never actually do anything on the list, everyone...
Penal Codes For Plastic Penises; Countries Where Your Buzzing Beau Sex Toy Can Get You Arrested
Penis Code Do you know about the Penis Code; whoops, Penal Code, in certain countries that can get your buzzing beau confiscated and possibly land you a hefty fine and even jail time? Did you know that there are some countries where sex toys are illegal? It's...
A Pair and a Spare; Why You Should Date Multiple People (or Finding Cinder-f*cking-rella Shoes)
A Pair and a Spare I recently had a discussion about my "PAIR & A SPARE" theory of dating multiple people with my sister who has been a wife and mother most of her life and is newly divorced. Unlike her hootchie big sister, she has always been in a committed...
11 Ways to Avoid Online Dating Disasters
by Jasmaine Payne Ah, the joys of online dating! Unashamed, I admit that I have subscribed to this alternative means of meeting prospective matches for quite some time now. Until now, online dating has blessed me with meeting interesting and refreshingly intelligent...
Breadcrumbing, Benching, Ghosting; Dealing With Disappearing Daters
What's up with bread-crumbing, cushioning, benching and ghosting? I thought when I got back into the world of dating that all I would have to worry about were catfish, but Millennials have added a whole new low to online dating with almost no integrity or...
Cougar Confessions; Lessons Learned From a Female Lech
I have never liked the label "Cougar". I despise the term. It is not a compliment for a mature woman of a certain age to be compared to a jungle animal. And yet, I am here today to share with you my "Cougar Confessions". I'm embarrassed to admit that I may have, ahem,...
Nasty, Vulgar, Dirty Bars
I secretly love bars with nasty, vulgar, dirty names. Perhaps it's because I'm always trying to be the "good girl"; not swearing like a sailor (at least, not in front of my mother), not dancing on tables at clubs (anymore), not dating twins (although if I WAS guilty,...
Skip the Boring Drinks Date & Hang With Some Hookers
If your dates this summer have been a bit boring, perhaps you should skip the typical drinks and a movie date and hang with some hookers. I don't mean you should hire a high-class escort (at least not on your first date), but lately mainstream movies...
The Sexiest Accommodations in the World
There are plenty of romantic hotels you can visit if you're looking for the perfect ambiance for you and your lover to increase your love and intimacy. There are also cheap motels for something a little...dirtier. But what if you're looking for something...different?...
The World’s Best Sex Museums
If you're an adventurous traveler with a kinky alter ego, skip the Metropolitan and the long lines at the Louvre and do some real exploring at the sexiest museums around the globe. Sex museums are full of giant penises sculpted more lovingly than...
Blindfolds and Backpacks: 10 Tips on Finding Freaky Friends Across the Country
So, you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey, seen the movie, and now you’re ready to find a kinky partner to play with, but you have no idea where to begin. How in the world can you find freaky friends, especially when you're traveling around the country and don't know anyone?...
3 Brooklyn Hot Spots Even Bar Haters Will Love
I hate bars. I don't drink, so I have little patience for drunk, obnoxious men trying to get off by grinding against my ass on the dance floor, as well as the inability to have a conversation over extremely loud Michael Jackson songs. But I love to dance. And I have...
10 Tips for the Good Girl Who’s Sometimes Bad
Are you a good girl who sometimes wants to be just a little bad? Being bad can be fun, especially when your definition of fun includes a hottie you just met while on vacation. (If you're looking for the most beautiful, sexiest men in the world, click here!) But far...
Foreign Flings; Staying Safe While Hooking Up
Virtually every online travel site, magazine, and guidebook offers tips on travel safety for solo female travelers. Wear a wedding ring. Carry a picture of your "husband". Wear a hijab to cover your head in Muslim countries and don't look Arab men in the eyes. Don't...